A candle loses nothing by lighting another candle.
Erin
Majors
The human heart feels things the eyes cannot see, and
knows what the mind cannot understand.
Robert Vallett
The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty
of their dreams. Eleanor Roosevelt
"If you want the rainbow, you have to pass through the
rain"
Be grateful God gave you two hands. One to help another
and one to help yourself...
Whenever you fall, pick something up...
Live life to the fullest because the future is scarce
"hope is a good thing, maybe the best of things, and good things never die…"
"Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery
Today is a gift, that’s why it’s called the present"
"Stop and smell the breeze…"
Kiss the sound that pounds your senses
"Always be in love with someone, even if it is with yourself…"
A smile is a curve that can straighten out a lot of things
"Despite everything, I believe that people really are good at heart." Anne Frank
People are like stained-glass windows.
They sparkle and shine when the sun is out,
but when the darkness sets
in,
their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within.
Elizabeth Kubler-Ross
"The secret
of health for both mind and body is not to mourn for the past, worry about the future, or anticipate troubles but to live
in the present moment wisely and earnestly."
Buddha
"Success
is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts."
Winston Churchill
"The grand
essentials of happiness are: something to do, something to love, and something to hope for."
Allan K. Chalmers
"When one
door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has
opened for us."
Helen Keller
"Fear less,
hope more;
Whine less, breathe more;
Talk less, say more;
Hate less, love more;
And all good things are yours."
Swedish Proverb
"Learn from
yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow."
Anon
"Life is
like a beautiful melody, only the lyrics are messed up."
Anon
"Life consists
not in holding good cards but in playing those you hold well."
Josh Billings
"Only a
life lived for others is a life worthwhile."
Albert Einstein
"Finish
each day and be done with it. You have done what you could; some blunders and absurdities have crept in; forget them as soon
as you can. Tomorrow is a new day; you shall begin it serenely and with too high a spirit to be encumbered with your old nonsense."
Ralph Waldo Emerson
"Believe
that life is worth living and your belief will help create the fact."
William James
My candle
burns at both ends;
It will not last the night;
But ah, my foes, and oh, my friends--
It gives a lovely light!
Edna St. Vincent Millay
"Live every
day as if it were your last, because one of these days, it will be."
Jeremy Schwartz
"All the
world's a stage,
And all the men and women merely players.
They have their exits and their entrances,
And one man
in his time plays many parts,
His acts being seven ages."
William Shakespeare
For some
life lasts a short while, but the memories it holds last forever.
Laura Swenson
There’s
a miracle of friendship that
dwells within the heart
And you don’t know how it happens
or where it gets its
start
But the happiness it brings you
always gives a special lift
Any you realize that friendship
Is God’s
most perfect gift.
Anon
I expect
to pass through this world but once. Any good thing, therefore, that I can do or any kindness I can show to any fellow human
being let me do it now. Let me not defer nor neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again.
Stephen Grellet
"Respect
for the truth comes close to being the basis for all morality."
Frank Herbert
"We are
what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make the world."
Buddha
"Minds are
like parachutes; they work best when open." Lord Thomas Dewar
"Thinking:
The talking of the soul with itself."
Plato
"The mind
has exactly the same power as the hands; not merely to grasp the world, but to change it."
Colin Wilson
"Hope" is
the thing with feathers
That perches in the soul
And sings the tune without the words
And never stops at all,
And sweetest in the gale is heard;
And sore must be the storm
That could abash the little bird
That kept
so many warm.
I've heard it in the chillest land
And on the strangest sea,
Yet never, in extremity,
It
asked a crumb of me.
Emily Dickinson
"Hope is
a state of mind, not of the world. Hope, in this deep and powerful sense, is not the same as joy that things are going well,
or willingness to invest in enterprises that are obviously heading for success, but rather an ability to work for something
because it is good."
Vaclav Havel
"Destiny
is not a matter of chance, it is a matter of choice; it is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved."
William Jennings Bryan
"Every man
has his own destiny: the only imperative is to follow it, to accept it, no matter where it leads him."
Henry Miller
"It is not
in the stars to hold our destiny but in ourselves."
William Shakespeare
"You can
never plan the future by the past."
Edmund Burke
"Time is
a gift, given to you, given to give you the time you need, the time you need to have the time of your life."
Norton Juster
"Time goes
by so fast, people go in and out of your life. You must never miss the opportunity to tell these people how much they mean
to you."
Anon
"They may
forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made them feel."
Carl W. Buechner
"I
think it is all a matter of love: the more you love a memory, the stronger and stranger it is."
Vladimir Nabokov
"As memory
may be a paradise from which we cannot be driven, it may also be a hell from which we cannot escape."
John Lancaster Spalding
Rules for a better life:
ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully. >> >>TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older,
their >>conversational skills will be as Important as any other. >> >>THREE. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have
or sleep all >>you want. >> >>FOUR. When you say, "I love you," mean it. >> >>FIVE W hen you say, "I'm sorry," look the person
in the eye. >> >>SIX. Be engaged at least six months before you get married. >> >>SEVEN. Believe in love at first sight. >>
>>EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who don't have dreams >>don't have much. >> >>NINE. Love deeply and passionately.
You might get hurt but it's the >>only way to live life completely. >> >>TEN. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.
>> >>ELEVEN. Don't judge people by their relatives >> >>TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly. >> >>THIRTEEN. When someone
asks you a question you don't want to >>answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?" >> >>FOURTEEN. Remember that great
love and great achievements involve >>great risk. >> >>FIFTEEN. Say "bless you" when you hear someone sneeze. >> >>SIXTEEN.
When you lose, don't lose the lesson >> >>SEVENTEEN. Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for >>others; and Responsibility
for all your actions. >> >>EIGHTEEN. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship. >> >>NINETEEN. When you realize
you've made a mistake, take immediate >>step to correct it. >> >>TWENTY. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will
hear it in >>your voice. >> >>TWENTY-ONE. Spend some time alone.
Everybody's Free (To Wear Sunscreen)
Ladies and Gentlemen of the class of '97, Wear sunscreen!
If I could offer you only one tip for the future, sunscreen
would be it. The long-term benefits of sunscreen have been proved by scientists, whereas the rest of my advice has no basis
more reliable than my own meandering experience. I will dispense this advice now...
Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth; Oh never mind,
you will never understand the power and the beauty of your youth until they've faded. But trust me, in twenty years, you will
look back at photos of yourself and recall in a way you can't grasp now, how much possibility lay before you and how fabulous
you really looked.
You are not as fat as you imagine.
Don't worry about the future or worry that know that
worrying is as affective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubble gum.
The real troubles in your life are apt to be things
that never crossed your worried mind. The kind that blindsides you at 4 PM on some idle Tuesday.
Do one thing every day that scares you.
Sing.
Don't be reckless with other peoples' hearts; don't
put up with people who are reckless with yours.
Floss.
Don't waste your time on jealousy, sometimes you're
ahead, sometimes you're behind. The race is long and in the end, it's only with yourself.
Remember compliments you receive, forget the insults.
If you succeed in doing this, tell me how.
Keep your old love letters; Throw away your old bank
statements.
Stretch.
Don't feel guilty if you don't know what to do with
your life. The most interesting people I know didn't know at 22 what they wanted to do with their lives, some of the most
interesting 40-year-olds I know still don't.
Get plenty of calcium.
Be kind to knees, you'll miss them when they're gone.
Maybe you'll marry, maybe you won't.
Maybe you'll have children, maybe you won't.
Maybe you'll divorce at 40, maybe you'll dance the "Funky
Chicken" on your 75th wedding anniversary.
Whatever you do, don't congratulate yourself too much
or berate yourself either.
Your choices are half chance, so are everybody else's.
Enjoy your body. Use it every way you can, don't be
afraid of it or what other people think of it. It's the greatest instrument you'll ever own.
Dance. Even if you have nowhere to do it but your own
living room.
Read the directions even if you don't follow them.
Do not read beauty magazines, they will only make you
feel ugly.
Brother and sister together will make it through,
Some
day a spirit will take you and guide you there,
I know you've been hurting, but I've been waiting to be there for you
And I'll be there just helping you out, whenever I can
Get to know your parents. You never know when they'll
be gone for good.
Be nice to your siblings. They are your best link to
your past and the people most likely to stick with you in the future.
Understand that friends come and go. But a precious
few, who should hold on.
Work hard to bridge the gaps in geography and lifestyle,
for as the older you get, the more you need the people you knew when you were young.
Live in New York City once, but leave before it makes
you hard.
Live in northern California once, but leave before it
makes you soft.
Travel.
Accept certain alible truths: prices will rise, politicians
will philander, you too will get old and when you do, you'll fanaticise that when you were young, prices were reasonable,
politicians were noble and children respected their elders.
Respect your elders.
Don't expect anyone else to support you.
Maybe you have a trust fund, maybe you'll have a wealthy
spouse but you'll never know when either one will run out.
Don't mess too much with your hair or by the time you're
forty, it will look eighty-five.
Be careful whose advice you buy, but be patient with
those who supply it.
Advice is a form of nostalgia. Dispensing it is a way
of wishing the past from the disposal, wiping it off, painting over the ugly parts and recycling for more than it's worth.
But trust me on the sunscreen.
Mary Smich