A candle loses nothing by lighting another candle. 
Erin
                                             Majors 
                                             The human heart feels things the eyes cannot see, and
                                             knows what the mind cannot understand. 
Robert Vallett 
                                             
The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty
                                             of their dreams. Eleanor Roosevelt 
                                             "If you want the rainbow, you have to pass through the
                                             rain"
                                             Be grateful God gave you two hands. One to help another
                                             and one to help yourself...
                                             Whenever you fall, pick something up...
                                              
                                             Live life to the fullest because the future is scarce
                                             
                                             
"hope is a good thing, maybe the best of things, and good things never die…"
                                             
                                             "Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery
                                             Today is a gift, that’s why it’s called the present"
                                              
                                             "Stop and smell the breeze…"
                                              
                                             Kiss the sound that pounds your senses
                                              
                                             "Always be in love with someone, even if it is with yourself…"
                                              
                                             A smile is a curve that can straighten out a lot of things
                                              
                                             "Despite everything, I believe that people really are good at heart." Anne Frank 
                                             
 
                                             
People are like stained-glass windows. 
They sparkle and shine when the sun is out,
but when the darkness sets
                                             in,
their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within.
                                             Elizabeth Kubler-Ross 
                                              
                                             "The secret
                                             of health for both mind and body is not to mourn for the past, worry about the future, or anticipate troubles but to live
                                             in the present moment wisely and earnestly." 
                                             Buddha 
                                              
                                             "Success
                                             is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts." 
Winston Churchill 
                                              
                                             "The grand
                                             essentials of happiness are: something to do, something to love, and something to hope for." 
                                             Allan K. Chalmers 
                                              
                                             "When one
                                             door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has
                                             opened for us." 
Helen Keller
                                              
                                             "Fear less,
                                             hope more;
Whine less, breathe more;
Talk less, say more;
Hate less, love more;
And all good things are yours."
                                             
Swedish Proverb 
                                              
                                             "Learn from
                                             yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow." 
                                             Anon
                                              
                                             "Life is
                                             like a beautiful melody, only the lyrics are messed up." 
Anon
                                              
                                             "Life consists
                                             not in holding good cards but in playing those you hold well." 
                                             Josh Billings 
                                              
                                             "Only a
                                             life lived for others is a life worthwhile." 
                                             Albert Einstein 
                                              
                                             "Finish
                                             each day and be done with it. You have done what you could; some blunders and absurdities have crept in; forget them as soon
                                             as you can. Tomorrow is a new day; you shall begin it serenely and with too high a spirit to be encumbered with your old nonsense."
                                             
Ralph Waldo Emerson 
                                              
                                             "Believe
                                             that life is worth living and your belief will help create the fact." 
William James 
                                              
                                             My candle
                                             burns at both ends; 
It will not last the night;
But ah, my foes, and oh, my friends--
It gives a lovely light! 
Edna St. Vincent Millay
                                              
                                             "Live every
                                             day as if it were your last, because one of these days, it will be." 
Jeremy Schwartz 
                                              
                                             "All the
                                             world's a stage,
And all the men and women merely players.
They have their exits and their entrances,
And one man
                                             in his time plays many parts,
His acts being seven ages." 
                                             William Shakespeare
                                              
                                             For some
                                             life lasts a short while, but the memories it holds last forever. 
Laura Swenson 
                                              
                                             There’s
                                             a miracle of friendship that 
dwells within the heart
And you don’t know how it happens 
or where it gets its
                                             start
But the happiness it brings you 
always gives a special lift
Any you realize that friendship
Is God’s
                                             most perfect gift.
                                             Anon
                                              
                                             I expect
                                             to pass through this world but once. Any good thing, therefore, that I can do or any kindness I can show to any fellow human
                                             being let me do it now. Let me not defer nor neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again.
                                             Stephen Grellet 
                                              
                                             "Respect
                                             for the truth comes close to being the basis for all morality." 
Frank Herbert 
                                              
                                             "We are
                                             what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make the world." 
                                             Buddha
                                              
                                             "Minds are
                                             like parachutes; they work best when open." Lord Thomas Dewar
                                              
                                             "Thinking:
                                             The talking of the soul with itself." 
                                             Plato 
                                              
                                             "The mind
                                             has exactly the same power as the hands; not merely to grasp the world, but to change it." 
                                             Colin Wilson
                                              
                                             "Hope" is
                                             the thing with feathers 
That perches in the soul 
And sings the tune without the words 
And never stops at all,
                                             
And sweetest in the gale is heard; 
And sore must be the storm 
That could abash the little bird 
That kept
                                             so many warm. 
I've heard it in the chillest land 
And on the strangest sea, 
Yet never, in extremity, 
It
                                             asked a crumb of me. 
Emily Dickinson
                                              
                                             "Hope is
                                             a state of mind, not of the world. Hope, in this deep and powerful sense, is not the same as joy that things are going well,
                                             or willingness to invest in enterprises that are obviously heading for success, but rather an ability to work for something
                                             because it is good." 
Vaclav Havel 
                                              
                                             "Destiny
                                             is not a matter of chance, it is a matter of choice; it is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved."
                                             William Jennings Bryan 
                                              
                                             "Every man
                                             has his own destiny: the only imperative is to follow it, to accept it, no matter where it leads him." 
Henry Miller
                                              
                                             "It is not
                                             in the stars to hold our destiny but in ourselves." 
William Shakespeare
                                              
                                             "You can
                                             never plan the future by the past." 
                                             Edmund Burke 
                                              
                                             "Time is
                                             a gift, given to you, given to give you the time you need, the time you need to have the time of your life." 
Norton Juster
                                              
                                             "Time goes
                                             by so fast, people go in and out of your life. You must never miss the opportunity to tell these people how much they mean
                                             to you." 
Anon
                                              
                                             "They may
                                             forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made them feel." 
                                             Carl W. Buechner 
                                              
                                             "I
                                             think it is all a matter of love: the more you love a memory, the stronger and stranger it is." 
Vladimir Nabokov
                                              
                                             "As memory
                                             may be a paradise from which we cannot be driven, it may also be a hell from which we cannot escape." 
John Lancaster Spalding
                                              
                                             Rules for a better life:
                                             ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully. >> >>TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older,
                                             their >>conversational skills will be as Important as any other. >> >>THREE. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have
                                             or sleep all >>you want. >> >>FOUR. When you say, "I love you," mean it. >> >>FIVE W hen you say, "I'm sorry," look the person
                                             in the eye. >> >>SIX. Be engaged at least six months before you get married. >> >>SEVEN. Believe in love at first sight. >>
                                             >>EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who don't have dreams >>don't have much. >> >>NINE. Love deeply and passionately.
                                             You might get hurt but it's the >>only way to live life completely. >> >>TEN. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.
                                             >> >>ELEVEN. Don't judge people by their relatives >> >>TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly. >> >>THIRTEEN. When someone
                                             asks you a question you don't want to >>answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?" >> >>FOURTEEN. Remember that great
                                             love and great achievements involve >>great risk. >> >>FIFTEEN. Say "bless you" when you hear someone sneeze. >> >>SIXTEEN.
                                             When you lose, don't lose the lesson >> >>SEVENTEEN. Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for >>others; and Responsibility
                                             for all your actions. >> >>EIGHTEEN. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship. >> >>NINETEEN. When you realize
                                             you've made a mistake, take immediate >>step to correct it. >> >>TWENTY. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will
                                             hear it in >>your voice. >> >>TWENTY-ONE. Spend some time alone.
                                             Everybody's Free (To Wear Sunscreen)
                                             Ladies and Gentlemen of the class of '97, Wear sunscreen!
                                             If I could offer you only one tip for the future, sunscreen
                                             would be it. The long-term benefits of sunscreen have been proved by scientists, whereas the rest of my advice has no basis
                                             more reliable than my own meandering experience. I will dispense this advice now...
                                             Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth; Oh never mind,
                                             you will never understand the power and the beauty of your youth until they've faded. But trust me, in twenty years, you will
                                             look back at photos of yourself and recall in a way you can't grasp now, how much possibility lay before you and how fabulous
                                             you really looked.
                                             You are not as fat as you imagine.
                                             Don't worry about the future or worry that know that
                                             worrying is as affective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubble gum.
                                             The real troubles in your life are apt to be things
                                             that never crossed your worried mind. The kind that blindsides you at 4 PM on some idle Tuesday.
                                             Do one thing every day that scares you.
                                             Sing.
                                             Don't be reckless with other peoples' hearts; don't
                                             put up with people who are reckless with yours.
                                             Floss.
                                             Don't waste your time on jealousy, sometimes you're
                                             ahead, sometimes you're behind. The race is long and in the end, it's only with yourself.
                                             Remember compliments you receive, forget the insults.
                                             If you succeed in doing this, tell me how.
                                             Keep your old love letters; Throw away your old bank
                                             statements.
                                             Stretch.
                                             Don't feel guilty if you don't know what to do with
                                             your life. The most interesting people I know didn't know at 22 what they wanted to do with their lives, some of the most
                                             interesting 40-year-olds I know still don't.
                                             Get plenty of calcium.
                                             Be kind to knees, you'll miss them when they're gone.
                                             Maybe you'll marry, maybe you won't.
                                             Maybe you'll have children, maybe you won't.
                                             Maybe you'll divorce at 40, maybe you'll dance the "Funky
                                             Chicken" on your 75th wedding anniversary.
                                             Whatever you do, don't congratulate yourself too much
                                             or berate yourself either.
                                             Your choices are half chance, so are everybody else's.
                                             Enjoy your body. Use it every way you can, don't be
                                             afraid of it or what other people think of it. It's the greatest instrument you'll ever own.
                                             Dance. Even if you have nowhere to do it but your own
                                             living room.
                                             Read the directions even if you don't follow them.
                                             Do not read beauty magazines, they will only make you
                                             feel ugly.
                                             
                                             Brother and sister together will make it through, 
Some
                                             day a spirit will take you and guide you there, 
I know you've been hurting, but I've been waiting to be there for you
                                             
And I'll be there just helping you out, whenever I can
                                             Get to know your parents. You never know when they'll
                                             be gone for good.
                                             Be nice to your siblings. They are your best link to
                                             your past and the people most likely to stick with you in the future.
                                             Understand that friends come and go. But a precious
                                             few, who should hold on.
                                             Work hard to bridge the gaps in geography and lifestyle,
                                             for as the older you get, the more you need the people you knew when you were young.
                                             Live in New York City once, but leave before it makes
                                             you hard.
                                             Live in northern California once, but leave before it
                                             makes you soft.
                                             Travel.
                                             Accept certain alible truths: prices will rise, politicians
                                             will philander, you too will get old and when you do, you'll fanaticise that when you were young, prices were reasonable,
                                             politicians were noble and children respected their elders.
                                             Respect your elders.
                                             Don't expect anyone else to support you.
                                             Maybe you have a trust fund, maybe you'll have a wealthy
                                             spouse but you'll never know when either one will run out.
                                             Don't mess too much with your hair or by the time you're
                                             forty, it will look eighty-five.
                                             Be careful whose advice you buy, but be patient with
                                             those who supply it.
                                             Advice is a form of nostalgia. Dispensing it is a way
                                             of wishing the past from the disposal, wiping it off, painting over the ugly parts and recycling for more than it's worth.
                                             But trust me on the sunscreen. 
                                             Mary Smich